1 hour back/ 1 month behind

I feel like October came and went in a blink! We had such a wonderful month, constantly busy and running around. It was fun but exhausting! Brad and I went on a quick trip to Vegas with some friends. We had a lot of fun and I was able to get some much need relaxation. It was hard being away from the children for so those three nights. I kept waking up early every morning listening for their voices!

Swimming lessons have ended and both children did so well! Once Louis turns three he can go into the next level. By the last class, Mabel loved the water! She giggled and laughed and like to lay back on relax. It is amazing to see them progress so quickly!

Louis continues to absorb everything. The first Monday after we changed the clocks back, I surprised that he noticed right away that it was now dark after daycare. He kept asking “why is it dark mommy?” and no matter what I said, he responded with “why?”. So I finally got the globe, had him pretend to be the sun and showed him that when Minnesota faces away from the sun – it is dark. He didn’t understand – but he stopped with the “why?”. I love the curiosity, but sometimes it is very exhausting trying to answer him.

Mabel is just goofy! She is talking all the time. Her favorite words are water (waya), eat, shirt, shoe, vroom vroom, thank you (day do) and of course “Papa”. She crawls around the house calling Papa all the time. It is very sweet. Her confidence in standing is growing. She now pulls herself up into standing position all the time, she is starting to cruise furniture and if we hold onto her hands she will take steps. Slowly but surely she will get there. She is so fun to be around right now. She talks like she is telling us a story, loves to do things just to get a reaction and has become so independent. I completely forgot about this stage, I love it!!

Lastly it was Halloween! We had a wedding on Halloween but we were able to get the kids out the week before and they got to do a little trick-or-treating in Avon with grandma. Louis was a dragon and Mabel was a little pig. They were both so cute, I just want them to always wear their outfits!

We have been enjoying the wonderful November weather and are looking forward to Thanksgiving and meeting Nolan Budde for the first time. I can’t believe next week is Thanksgiving already! At some point I am going to need to start Christmas shopping. Tis the season!

Where did September go?

Wow, September was a crazy month. We started swimming lessons, had two weddings, Mabel’s birthday and her birthday party, and Mabel’s one year pictures. Our weekends have been packed full and unfortunately, October is looking the same. We had Mabel’s one year pictures at Minnehaha Falls. A colleague from work just started a side photography business. I highly recommend her! Here is a link to her blog (Mabel is Miss M). http://blog.tentinytoesphoto.com/. Those are just a sampling of 5 pictures, I can’t wait to see the rest!!

We held a wonderful birthday party for Mabel. Again, she loved her cupcake - this time a gigantic one! I am amazed at how quickly she got the hang of opening presents! We had all the local family down for the party. It was a quick 2 hour party, busy but fun! You are one, Mabel!! Way to go!

I mentioned we started swimming lessons. Louis is in the Turtle class and Mabel is in the Tadpole class. Both Brad and I are in the water with the kids and it is at the same time with the same teacher (hmm). Louis has come along so far in swimming. He takes instruction so well! We likes jumping off the diving board, but doesn’t yet like dunking his head. Mabel gets better and better each week. The water is pretty cold, so she likes to curl up as high on my shoulder as possible. But this week she lounged back and enjoyed the water. She even let me hold her back away from my body!

Lastly, at Mabel’s one year appt, her pediatrician was concerned that Mabel is not yet pulling herself up on furniture or cruising. (She did finally start truly crawling the day of her Dr. appt.) To be honest, I was a little concerned as well, but I just thought she would be a slow walker like Louis. Well, at her appt we did end up doing some x-rays to be sure her hips we aligned okay…and they were. But it was pretty emotional for both mom and baby! Now we are seeing a physical therapist. We are told she is definitely fine, she just has low muscle tone and super mobile joints. So, she truly doesn’t yet feel safe standing. The PT is pretty confident that we will have her walking in six months if we work on the various exercises…Mabel now has a workout routine! Overall I am not overly anxious, I just want to be sure we are doing what we can to help her out. She is such a sweet girl, and right now loves to cuddle more than anything – so I have to learn to put her down and work for it!

Even Jesus needs to sleep Louis

A few weeks ago we put Louis to bed at his typical 8:00pm bedtime. Lately he has been turning his light on and playing for awhile, but b/t Brad and I, we usually catch it pretty early and he then goes to sleep without incident. However on this particular night, both Brad and I forgot to run upstairs to be sure the lights were off. Around 9:30pm, I decided to get ready for bed. As I got to the top of the stairs, I saw that Louis’ light was on. I couldn’t believe that he was still up! I was hoping that maybe he played for a little bit and had now fallen asleep with the light on.

I opened the door very quietly but quickly. There was Louis sitting at the foot of his bed reading a book. His eyes were super big – knowing he had been caught. In my not-so-happy voice, I asked him “Louis, what are you doing?”. He quickly lifted his book in the air and said, “Reading my Jesus book mommy”. He had been reading his children’s bible!

I then heard Brad come up the stairs and open the door further. He also asked Louis in his not-so-happy voice, “Dude, what are you doing”. Louis then proceeded to point to his two books he had been reading: his children’s bible and a book on the 50 greatest sports endings in history.

Brad and I were both speechless. What do you say to a 2 year old who is reading and on top of that, reading a bible and a sports book? How do you tell him that what he is doing is wrong? Well, after we got done smiling at our very sweet son and staring at each other with “now what?” eyes, we told Louis that it was very good that he was reading, but now it was late and he needed to go to sleep. He could read this bible and sports book a different day. He more than happily obliged by crawling under the covers and going to sleep. We turned off the lights and they stayed off until the next morning.

Happy Birthday Mabel!

Mabel turned one on Friday night! We are hosting a party for her next week, but I wanted to be sure her actual birthday went well too! It was more about making Louis excited for her birthday than Mabel since she doesn’t have a clue. She got her favorite foods for her birthday (waffles, pears, yogurt) and from what you can see below she loved her cupcake!!

She got the hang of opening presents pretty quickly…but not fast enough for Lou. However, every time he tried to help, she made it clear very quickly that he was not welcome to her presents. It was like she turned 13 rather than 1!!
She is just a blast right now. We turned her car seat around and she is now so happy in the car! She isn’t walking yet, or standing for that matter – she has zero interest in it. She does the army crawl and started crawling a little bit tonight. But like her brother – what she lacks in gross motor skills, she makes up in the fine motor skills and talking. She loves to use a spoon and feed herself. It is messy, but she actually gets quite a bit of food in her mouth. She is talking a lot, and loves saying “up, come, hi-lo, all done”. She really does feel like she is conversing with you. Tonight Louis was playing with a fire truck and making fire truck noises. Pretty soon Mabel was mimicking him and doing her own fire truck sounds. I am amazed at how quickly she picks that stuff up! She also loves dancing. The minute she hears a tune, she starts head bobbing and rocking back and forth. Like her father – she loves rock music!
Happy Birthday Baby Mabey! You have brought a lot of smiles and love into our home! You are such a joy to wake up to each morning and are so cuddly when we put you down to sleep each night. You love action and you don’t miss a thing. We all love you very much.

Last days of Summer

August was a fun month in the Budde household. In early August we had the Budde family campout. On the way there we needed to stop and get passports for both the children. Louis was super excited to get it and take his picture. It has since arrived and he is very proud of his “pass-i-port”.

The Budde family campout was a good time. Nearly all the Budde aunts, uncles and cousins were there. We were lucky this year in that the “campout” was held at Brad’s dad’s place. That meant that we got to sleep in the house, in beds and had running water. My idea of camping.

In mid-August we had a bunch of my college girlfriends down for an afternoon while the guys went golfing. There were a lot of little kids there and while it was quick different than our get togethers of years past, it was fun for all the girl’s and the kids to hang out and catch up.

Lastly we made a family outing to a Twins game…one last one in the metrodome. Louis was super excited to go to the game. He marched into the dome chanting “base…ball…game, base…ball…game”. Once we got there he did get bored pretty quickly. Both kids got pretty tired after about six innings and we needed to leave.

The summer ended with a great labor day weekend at the cabin. We only went up for one night but it was a busy two days. Louis fell in love with raspberry pie and Mabel further proved her love for sweets as well. We left the cabin at 6:00pm Sunday night…and both kids were sleeping by 6:10 and slept until 7:30 the next morning. They were truly wiped out.

Summer Fun

Summer continues to be a blast. Both kids love being outside. Whether we are splashing in the water, playing in the sandbox , finger painting or going for walks - we are having a great time. Louis loves hanging out with his papa. They have great conversations with each other and love to have lego or block building contests. Brad truly has just as much fun as Louis does. At night now he loves to hear "stories". He is quite creative in what he wants to hear about, but many times it includes stories about papa, mama, basketball, or airplanes.
Mabel is moving everywhere. Although she is not officially crawling, she scoots, rolls over and inches to everything. She pulls down books, toys - it seems that suddenly everything is within her reach. I forgot about this part of early toddlerhood. She continues to babble and talk. Like her brother she loves books. There are a lot of smiles around our house right now and that is great.

Independence day, overly Dependent kids

Overall we had a wonderful 4th of July weekend. We went to the Budde Cabin and enjoyed a nice long weekend there. Unfortunately, both kids had a fever for at least a day, so there was lots of neediness and whining occurring throughout the weekend. Both Thursday night and Friday night included lots of getting up and comforting both kids. By Saturday night the kids either felt better or were so tired from getting up the previous nights and hardly napping that both slept amazingly well. Both kids got to play in the kiddie pool, Mabel especially thought it was very enjoyable! She loves splashing in the water. Mabel also got her first oreo cookie. As you can tell from the pictures – she loved every minute of it!

On Friday morning, Louis and Mabel got into their first verbal argument. All four of us were hanging out in bed (as it was only 6:20am). Mabel tried to grab a book from Louis. He responded with a “No”. Mabel in turn responded with a “ya”. Louis then repeated his “No” and Mabel her “ya”. It went on like this back and forth about 5 times, much to the amusement of Brad and myself. Finally, Louis ended it with a “No, Mabel” and turned away. Poor Louis, he doesn’t know what he is in for. Suddenly his “baby sista” from 10 months ago that just laid there sleeping, is now a talking, grabbing, pulling 10-month-old who is starting to invade his space. He has found ways to get back at her however. He knows that if he roars loud like a lion, dinosaur, tiger, shark (they all make the same noise), that Mabel will cry – he is enjoying his power. Overall though they get along great and we can always count on Louis to sing songs to Mabel to make her stop crying or play peek-a-boo to make her laugh.